"She came home today with a ring on her hand..."

Hello All!! I am a very very excited and happy Chapman today. Tanner and I got engaged this past weekend! We are so excited to be in this new stage of life and are thankful for all of your prayers for us and our relationship. Please continue to pray for us as we plan and prepare for "the big day." It is our desire the the Lord will be glorified and praised even in the smallest details of planning! God is so good!

Comments

[Bethany]

Congratulations!!! Has your dad gotten a song written for the wedding already? : )

[Kelby]

We are so, SO happy for the two of you. (Didn't I tell you in Tulsa last September that he was the one? lolol) You have our abiding prayers and love.

[Rebecca H.]

CONGRATULATIONS! I figured this was coming...have fun planning!

[Elysha]

We are so happy for you and we are praying for you and Tanner as you enter this new stage of both of your lives! CONGRATS!!!!

Elysha

We are praying for your family! We love you all!

[HSB Suzanne]

Congratulations on your engagement!!!

Please know that I'm praying for your family during this time.

A sister-in-Christ,
Suzanne

[Amy]

Sigh.

This day is now going to be one you'll never forget and my hugs and prayers are with you.

God's timing is...so painful sometimes. I'm glad he's given you and Tanner each other to lean on. Congratulations on your engagement.

We're praying for all of you.

[Lynette]

Congratulations of course...and prayers for you and your family. We also have an adopted 5 y.o. May the God of all comfort be especially near.

[Kelby]

If my family is in shock an tears, then I am heartbroken to think how much more you all are hurting. How I wish I could do or say something that would lighten your grief but I know that I can't. So just know that tonight, and for many nights to come, we are carrying you to Jesus through prayer. We love all of you.

[Bethany]

I told you congratulations here earlier today, and now my heart is breaking for your family. You will be in my thoughts and prayers many, many times in the coming days.

[Beth T]

Just a note to let you know that we are thinking of you & praying for you at our house tonight. Several years ago, my cousin & her husband, now a pastor, were on their honeymoon when they learned that her younger brother had died of cancer. Her wedding was overshadowed with grief because we knew he was near the end. Years later, she wishes that she had been able to allow herself the opportunity to experience the joy of her wedding without feeling guilty at a time when all around her was sad. Give yourself time to grieve & time to be joyful... as it says in Eccl. I hope it is comforting to know God is there for us on the happiest days & the saddest days of our life...and days when it feels like both. May God be with you!

[Diana Ray]

No words would be appropriate but
some words are necessary. We are
all connected. We are all related.
We rejoice and we grieve together.
Tonight we grieve with you and your
family. We are not in charge of
our lives entirely, even though
we have free will. God never
blinks or does not notice. He
sometimes allows and then He
heals. We can't fully understand.
That's why they call it faith. We
are all eternal beings and all of
our eternities begin right here
on earth. There is no break or
vacation. We are and will always
be eternally with God. Love and
Prayers to all of you in Christ.

[Joanne]

I want to wish you all the best on your upcoming marriage.

I'm so heartbroken for your entire family and please know that we are praying without ceasing for all of you. I volunteered at one of your dad's concerts a few years ago and attended another just recently and it's life-changing. I'm also a mom of 2 adopted from Korea and your family touches and inspires the entire adoption community. You're in our prayers.

[barbara]

my heart is broken for you and your family. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

[Kendra]

My prayers go out to your precious family.

Congrats on your engagement.

[Courtney]

Emily. I just wanted to tell you that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I pray that God will grant you all strength and grace through this time. Praise the Lord dear Maria is with Jesus now. Always remember that God's will is perfect even though we may not understand it. May God give you wisdom, strength and understanding in this time of need.

Congrats on the engagement as well.
Love in Christ,
Courtney

[Jodie]

I don't even know what to say. My heart is breaking for you. I am so thankful that the Lord has called you to a marriage that seeks to bring glory to Christ, and trust that He will bless you richly. Congratulations, Emily, on your engagement. Truly, it is a gift from the Lord.

And I pray that He is wrapping His arms around you as you also endure unthinkable sorrow. My words fail...I'm so glad that He and His words never fail. Ever. We will be praying for you...hurting for and with you...loving you, our dear brothers and sisters in Christ.

[BethG]

There aren't words to express my thoughts - but there are prayers for all of you. Especially for you....

[BethG]

There aren't words to express my thoughts - but there are prayers for all of you. Especially for you....

[Chelsea]

I just received word of the accident. I am so very sorry. I will be in prayer for your family. May the God of all comfort and encouragement be with you in these days ahead.

May you be surrounded by the love of your friends and family today. Hang in there, dear sister. God will bring you through this.

[Betsy]

Emily, I am praying for you and your family. God is bigger than all of this and He loves you so much. He holds you now through all the confusing feelings you may go through. He will not leave or let you go. He loves you immensely and will always be there for you. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. For all that you need, God will provide. Hang on to your family and especially to Him! Praying for you.

[jenn]

Emily,

No words other than - I am praying for you and your family.

[Cindy]

To you and your family...there is the excitement of your upcoming marriage...congratulations...then tragedy. Words just can't express...I am just heartbroken for you and your family. I pray that God be with you all and also with your brother. May God give him peace about this whole tragedy. My prayers go out to your entire family.

[Goalie]

I love your pictures of your little sisters and how Maria delighted in life. Many, many prayers are with you and your family!

[Wendy Gordy]

Emily,

You don't know me...but I have appreciated your "wise" heart and relentless love for our Savior! I can't imagine the pain right now, and tears are streaming down my face as I saw the picture of your 3 sisters on this blog. My heart breaks for your brother...God has blessed all of you with an amazing family and I pray that the Foundation that has been set will be where you find strength to begin to breath again...Jesus is the only Firm Foundation and I know you know that better than most...Our family weeps with you in this time and we will be praying for all of you in this journey of the unexpected...and as you begin to make steps towards your own family we will be praying about that specifically as well...

Wendy in MN

[Tammie]

My deepest sorrow for you and your family. Prayers for peace for you. I'm so sorry for your loss.

[Jon E]

I'm not sure what His purpose is in this, but I am glad you have Tanner in this time, and I know His will shall be done. Blessings and prayers to you and your family in this trying time. Remember Job

[Sam]

Good morning! I know you will hear this often over the next days, weeks, and months but I want to send out our love and prayers to you and your family Emily. May the Lord's peace fill your home and heart's during this time. We love you and believe that you and your family will one day see just one set of footprints in the sand during these days.

[Shane Watson]

First, I'd like to say congratulations on your engagement. Second, I'd like to express my sorrow to both you and your family. You are all in my family's thoughts and prayers.

[Melissa Stephens]

Congrats on your engagement! I know your parents are very proud of you.

On another note, I am praying for you all. I am a mother of two little girls ages 5 and 9 and when I heard the news tonight, my heart just broke. I sat on the couch here in Texas and prayed for you all.
God is with you, rest in his arms and know that he will carry you every step of the way.
Please let your parents know that we are praying here in Texas.

[Dwight & Melissa]

Emily,

The Lord has used your family to encourage us so throughout our lives and service for Him. We are praying for you and your family that He will carry you in a special way at this time. He is faithful no matter what.

In His Love & Grace,
Dwight & Melissa
Timisoara, Romania

[Aaron Miller]

Hey there Emily,
Sadly, I happened on your blog while hearing the news about your sister. :(
But I know she's in a place much better and we will be jamming with her in high places soon enough. I will keep you all constantly in my thoughts and prayers.

Congrats and good luck on the engagement. I wish you and Tanner many years of happiness!
-Aaron Miller and all of us in western Kentucky

[Sanjung Chiu]

Jesus, please heal wounds. Amen.

[The Hunt Family]

Emily, no words, just prayers. For your brother, be his rock, only God can help with his grief and guilt that always follows an unthinkable accident.

[Jennifer]

Emily,
I have been a fan of your dad's music for a long time and I feel like I've watched you grow up. I am so thrilled for you and your family on your upcoming marriage and my heart is breaking for all of you trying to deal with this unthinkable tragedy. Please know that just as your family has given so much hope to myself and others over the years, we will now step in and blanket your family in prayer through this tragedy.

[Hayley]

Emily,
Our family will forever be connected to your family through Shaohannah's Hope. Your grant helped us to bring home our daughter. We are grieving right now and interceding for your family and so is our church.

[Jenn J]

Emily, we're so excited and thankful God is watching over you and your fiancee. We're sorry to hear of the sorrow of loss in the midst of the joy. I'm certain that wasn't how you'd hoped the day would unfold. Remember that God has a plan for everything and is always in control. We're all praying for your family to heal and move forward with all the great things he has in store for you all still.
With Love from SC

[Aislynn Holt]

Congratulations Emily! Just sending love and prayer to you and the family. I hold you all near to my heart!

[Andrea Shef :)]

hey! You don't know me but I wanted to say - CONGRATS!!!!
You ROCK!

[eileen]

Emily,
I've never posted on a blog before, but wanted you to know that my heart breaks for your families tragedy. Please take care of each other. Help your brother through this. I can't imagine what he's feeling and I weep for him...and for you all. God bless.
Eileen

[Sandy]

My heart broke this morning when i heard of the loss in your family. My thoughts and prayers of healing are with you and your family in this hard time. Everything happens for a reason even though at the time we may not see it. Keep leaning and trusting on God and He will heal everything.

[Dionna]

I am so very sorry for the tragedy and loss of your precious little sister. Your brother is going to need a lot of prayer during the coming days and to be reminded that he is loved despite what happened.
I will be praying for your family. I am so so very sorry.

[Susan]

PRAYERS with deepest sympathy.

[jennifer]

Emily - Others are right, there are no words. You don't know me, but I am from Grand Rapids, Michigan (home of Bethany Christian Services) and our entire community is grieving this morning. May God reach out and touch your family and help you though this challenging time...
Congratulations on your engagment announcement...!

[Kevin Barker]

Emily,
Congratulations on your engagement. Please know that you and your family are in our prayers at this very difficult time. May God continue to shower you with His love, comfort and peace.

In His Service,
Kevin Barker

[praise and coffee]

Emily,
Congratulations!
My heart and prayers go out to you and your family during this time of grief.
Hugs,
Sue Cramer

[Mike & MaryAnn Roberts]

"Cry Out to Jesus", Third Day.

To everyone who's lost someone they love
Long before it was their time
You feel like the days you had were not enough
when you said goodbye

And to all of the people with burdens and pains
Keeping you back from your life
You believe that there's nothing and there is no one
Who can make it right

Chorus:
There is hope for the helpless
Rest for the weary
And love for the broken heart
There is grace and forgiveness
Mercy and healing
He'll meet you wherever you are
Cry out to Jesus, Cry out to Jesus

For the marriage that's struggling just to hang on
They've lost all of their faith in love
And they've done all they can to make it right again
Still it's not enough

For the ones who can't break the addictions and chains
You try to give up but you come back again
Just remember that you're not alone in your shame
And your suffering

Chorus:

When your lonely
And it feels like the whole world is falling on you
You just reach out, you just cry out to Jesus
Cry to Jesus

To the widow who suffers with being alone
Wiping the tears from her eyes
For the children around the world without a home
Say a prayer tonight

There are so many people in the world with serious hurt, and the only source of true comfort is Jesus. We need to live our lives in such a way that they can see we have pain as well, but they need to see that the way we "deal with it" is by falling on our knees and crying out to Jesus.

This was posted by a friend of ours on his BLOG and I thought it was so fitting for your family. Our family is praying for you. Cry out to JESUS!! HE has the source of rest and peace you each need. May HE work through each of you in this difficulty

Love & MUCH Prayer,

Mike & MaryAnn Roberts

[Mallory]

Baylor Bears are praying for you in Houston. And congratulations on your engagement! That is so wonderful! You and I had a PSC class together at Baylor and you kindly did an interview on Invisible Children for me as well. You are being wrapped in prayer during this tragedy and throughout the new life you will start.

[k]

I want to echo what was posted earlier - we are praying for you to find a way to not lose the joy God has allowed you in your engagement. Why He also chose to allow unspeakable grief at such a time as this (or any time, for that matter) is completely beyond my comprehension. I sat here last night and asked Him, "Why??" What I do know, and I know you do too, is that this sad occurence did not come as a shock to Him. We are praying for His grace to somehow be sufficient, as He has promised, especially as you go through this journey, as you always have, so publicly.

[Linda Thompson]

Emily,
I am so very very sorry to hear about the accident. Please know that you are being lifted up in prayer by thousands and thousands of people. Our God is a loving Father and He knows how much your heart aches right now and it must grieve Him to see the ones He loves so much in so much pain. Lean on Him, He will comfort you and your family.

[MamaPoRuski]

Words cannot express my heart for you and your family at this time. What joy to begin a new phase in your life, and sadness for the loss of your sister. You are loved, each and every one of you and it is a honor to be a part of your greater family of believers.

[Cati]

Emily-
What a wonderful blessing to celebrate you engagement; What a difficult thing to experience the goodbye of little Maria at such a time. But God knows, and I am fully persuaded that He is perfectly just and faithful.
Rest in Him, dear sister in Christ.
Cling to Him.
Lean on Him.
Cry to Him.
He will hear you.
He will hold you.
He will help you.
I cry for you, Emily.
May the God of great peace surround you with His love and engulf you with all of His strength.
His grace is sufficient for you.
Hold on, dear Emily.
Hold on...
Hope in God.

[Jenn]

Oh my ...how I want to reach out and hug you all. I can only say my prayers are yours. And I will keep on asking God to give you all that you need.

As you start your amazing life with Tanner, may I say...Congratulations. And bless you both for a lifetime.

With heart,
Jennifer

[Jenn]

Oh my ...how I want to reach out and hug you all. I can only say my prayers are yours. And I will keep on asking God to give you all that you need.

As you start your amazing life with Tanner, may I say...Congratulations. And bless you both for a lifetime.

With heart,
Jennifer

[Melissa Gill]

First I want to say Congratulations on your engagement. What an exciting time!

But i am so sorry to hear about your sister. We are crying with you and preying for you. I don't know what to say but i wanted to let you know we are thinking of you and praying for you and your entire family.

[Trina]

Congrats. I hope you have a ton of fun planning the big day!

[Melissa]

Prayers and blessings to you and yours at this time.

[BP]

Congratulations on your engagement.

Your family is in my prayers. I pray God will hold all of you close during this difficult time. My heart is so sad for all of you.

[Jamie Baker]

You and your family are in my prayers. i'm so sorry you lost your sweet sister. May God fill your lives with peace.

[Kimberly]

Emilly May God Bless You
Kimberly Paducah, class of "1979"

[Godly Daniel]

Dear Emily,

This is the first time I've come to this blog and I am sad that it is because of this particular reason. My wife and I heard of what happened and were completely heart broken for you and your family. You and I met for a brief moment recently at the CAFO Summit here in Florida. I wanted to touch base and say hello but not like this. My mind is racing to find the right words to say and if my wife was next to me she would probably do a better job but I just wanted to say our prayers are with you. As I say this the song "God is God" comes to mind. Our Lord, He is truly "Love" in its most beautiful and comforting sense. "Can I doubt His tender mercies, who through life has been my guide? Heavenly peace divinest comfort here by faith in Him to dwell. For I know whatever befalls me Jesus doeth all things well" I pray that you are reminded at this time of our Lord's love for Maria. If your angry, which I remember being when I lost a baby cousin, that you are crying out to the Lord with your sorrow. There is a line in "Amazing Grace" that touched my heart last Sunday as I came to church to worship the Lord. It reads "His Word my Hope secures." He is our Word, our security and our hope. May this trial be the greatest testimony of your families life for all the children that the Lord seeks to set in families.

"God Is God"
And the pain falls like a curtain
On the things I once called certain
And I have to say the words I fear the mostI just don’t know

And the questions without answers
Come and paralyze the dancer
So I stand here on the stage afraid to move
Afraid to fall, oh, but fall I must
On this truth that my life has been formed from the dust

CHORUS:
God is God and I am not
I can only see a part of the picture He’s painting
God is God and I am man
So I’ll never understand it all
For only God is God

And the sky begins to thunder
And I’m filled with awe and wonder
‘Til the only burning question that remains
Is who am I

Can I form a single mountain
Take the stars in hand and count them
Can I even take a breath without God giving it to me
He is first and last before all that has been
Beyond all that will pass

CHORUS

Oh, how great are the riches of His wisdom and knowledge
How unsearchable for to Him and through Him and from Him are all things

So let us worship before the throne
Of the One who is worthy of worship alone

[Megan]

Hold onto that brother of yours and love him with all your might although you are grieving...you will give him strength he needs and can hold onto the rest of his life.

[Amy]

Emily,
My heart breaks for your entire family, and especially your brother. May each and every one of you experience overwhelming waves of comfort at this time. Lean on the everlasting arms of our Lord and Savior as you work through the pain and sorrow and may you look ahead with hope as you start a new life with Tanner.

[Laurie Black & Family]

God allows us to experience indescribable joy and unimaginable pain in order to shape us into what His will is for us. I am praying for your family during this tragic time, and will continue to do so even after the pain and sadness diminish and your mourning turns to joy again. It will. I know first-hand the miracles that our Father can do in our times of need. God bless you and your beloved, and know that we are all praying for you.

[Erica]

Emily,

I know we have never met, but i am praying for you!!! My mom died last summer (it was just about a month after my 13 birthday)from a type of cancer, the doctors had not known what it was until the end... My mom loved your dad's music and though she never met you'll she loved you. I know right now you are most likly sick of poeple telling you it will be alright, the truth is you'll never be the same.... you'll never stop missing Maria, but you'll see her again. And you need to trust that. I love you so much and am praying for you!!! God will use you through this to bless and minister to others. (*hug*) Never hold back your tears, or pretend to be "alright"... Cry out to Jesus, He is always there with His arms opened...

-erica randall-teamrandall@earthlink.net

[Bethany]

Emily,
We are praying so hard for you and your family at this time. Your faith will be tested as I'm sure it has already been rocked. Try to focus on the love God has for you and that Maria is waiting for you...joyfully dancing in Heaven. Love to you all.

[Kim]

Praying for your sweet family at this time.

[Kim]

Praying for your sweet family at this time.

[Kim]

Praying for your sweet family at this time.

[Kim]

Praying for your sweet family at this time.

[Jen L.]

Praying for your family. There's nothing I can say that hasn't already been said.

Congratulations on your engagement! Isn't God great to give you Tanner as a support?!

[Suzanne]

Emily,

What can be said that hasn't already been said? You've probably been there where you were the one reading about someone else's tragedy before, and now it is you living in one. I know that I lost my husband on the night my younger brother was married. I raised my two kids myself. Words cannot express what I want to say to you, I know that the Holy Spirit as in Romans is the one that is intercessing for so many of us right now with our groans and sorrow. I do not know you, but I now feel I know you and your family. May God's arms be around each and every one of you right now. Your brother is going to need your support and everyone else's. We love you and we care for all of you. In God's Love and Almighty Grace, Suzanne

[Valerie]

Congrats on your engagement! I figured it wasn't too far off. It'll be exciting to hear about the plans and see pictures of you trying on dresses (just not THE dress until the Big Day!)

(I didn't want to post this here, but I can't get the other page to load....sorry)
I'm at a loss for words about Maria. I opened my email in utter disbelief! I'm still in shock, really. I will definitely be praying for each and every one of you. Maybe God wanted to dance with His "Cinderella", Maria....

[Jamie]

Emily-

I was devastated last night when I heard of the tragedy your family had experienced. Please know that through it all, my family will be lifting you and your family up in prayer. Cry out to Jesus as he is waiting for you with open, loving arms. May you find comfort in knowing that sweet Maria is with her King and she is dancing with angels as we speak. You will see her again one day.

Dancing With Angels-

Memories surround me
But sadness has found me
I'd do anything for more time
Never before has someone meant more
And I can't get you out of my mind
There is so much that I don't understand
But I know

You're dancing with the angels
Walking in new life
You're dancing with the angels
Heaven fills your eyes
Now that you're dancing with the angels

You had love for your family
Love for all people
Love for the Father, and Son
Your heart will be heard
In you unspoken words
Through generations to come
There is so much that I don't understand
But I know

You're dancing with the angels
Walking in new life
You're dancing with the angels
Heaven fills your eyes
Now that you're dancing with the angels

We're only here for such a short time
So I'm gonna stand up
Shout out
And sing Hallelujah
One day I'll see you again

Love In Christ,
Jamie

[Rhonda]

Dear Emily,

Congrats on your engagement, that is so wonderful! My son is about your age and my daughters your brother's age. Keep in mind the love you 2 have and wanting to serve our Savior!

My heart hurts for your family.

My girls grew up listening to your Father's music and your family has always touched my heart. And I enjoyed watching them grow up! We have the "Christmas Child" movie and words can not express how sad we are!

We will be fervently praying!
Know God is holding Maria right now maynot be easy but he is!!

Your brother is deeply in my prayers and thoughts also!

God Bless you,
the Belcher family

[Stephanie]

Emily,

Your ring is beautiful, as is the smile on your face ... I pray that in time God will comfort you and your precious family and restore this joy to you again. Please be assured of the prayers of many believers around the world on your behalf.

Praying in Chile,
Stephanie

[Daniel, Renee, Hannah, Aspen Grace, and Sydney]

Sweet Emily,
I have been wanting to post since I heard the news of your engagement - and here we are today facing not only the engagement - but also the sadness of the loss of precious Maria Sue.
Thank you for your precious heart towards Hannah and Aspen Grace at Kanakuk last year! We will always hold a special place in our hearts not just for your dad - but for you as well!
Please know that our hearts are literally breaking for your family's loss today! May our precious Father be your family's strength and comfort as only HE can be!
We are sending you an e-hug, our prayers, our love, and support all the way from Colorado!
In Him,
Daniel, Renee, Hannah, Aspen Grace , and Sydney

[jan]

i wrote this poem when my daughter's baby girl died when my daughter was 8 mo pregnant 6 mo ago; i hope it brings comfort:

Little one, hold my hand.
Show me all the wonders that you see;
Help me feel His loving touch,
Lead me gently to His feet;

Little one, hold my hand,
Guide me as I seek to learn
How to do what He wants of me;
Be my sweet angel leading me.

Little one, hold my hand,
Come at night and whisper in my ear
Of the glorious things that you now know,
Safely resting in His arms..

Little one, hold my hand.
Sit beside me as I weep;
Dry my tears with gentle breath,
A breeze that softly touches cheek.

Little one, hold my hand,
Angel fingers entwined in mine;
Pull me gently closer still
To live in Him in every hour.

Little one, hold my hand,
He will help you teach me how
To be a better person now,
Change me with His love you bring.

Little one, hold my hand,
I need to feel your presence here;
I'll try not to hold too tight,
For I know I'm not the only one.

Little one, hold my hand,
Snuggle with me in my dreams
And sing a joyful song to me;
I'll listen and i'll sing with you.

Little one, hold my hand,
Until the day when I come home
And then we'll dance and never tire
And play at Jesus feet again.

[Hannah - age 4]

Dear Emily~

You may not remember me - but I met you at "KAMP" last summer. I sang you some songs from my VBS! My little sister Aspen Grace and I played ball with you in the Kamp's gym!
I want to tell you that you are my friend and I love you very much!
I am so sorry to hear about your sister.
I will be praying for you and your family!

Love, Hannah - age 4

[Jessica]

Congratulations!! That is sooo exciting! I will be praying for you and your famiy.

[Annie Gable]

Emily,
I have loved your dad's music for many years and always thought what an amazing family! My heart ached as I heard the news of Maria's sudden home going. There are many prayers being lifted to the Father on your behalf and your family. I pray earnestly for your sweet brother who must be feeling so much pain but thankfully he has a wonderful family who will rally around him and he knows a Savior who will wrap His arms around him. Blessings to you on your engagement!

[Mattison]

Emily,
That is really cool that you are engaged!!!! I am really sorry to hear about your sister... I am praying for your family.

Mattison

[Morgan Taylor]

I'm so happy to hear of your engagement... but so sad to hear of your loss. Im sooooo sorry for you and Im praying for you. I know that this is so hard for you with your engagement happening and then this happens. I'm so sorry.

[Angela Nichols]

As a semi-newlywed myself I am praying for you. I am also praying for your family during this difficult time. May this tragedy bring glory to God.

[Chris Carder]

Emily and all the Chapman famiy,
I am broken to hear of the tragic news of the loss of your sister. You all are in my prayers and I know God is an ever present help and comfort in the hardest of times. May your brother be comforted through the truth that this was not his fault. The enemy will lie to him, but I know your family will be a source of strength to him. I pray you all know the Savior's comfort like never before.
And I pray you find solace in the one God has blessed you with to share life's joys and it's sorrows. What a timely gift. God bless your engagement and marriage!
In Jesus,
chris carder

[Julie]

Emily, We don't always understand God's way of doing things. In the midst of such exciting news for you, it is so hard to hear of the great tragedy your family is experiencing. I pray that through the sorrow you are able to celebrate life, particularly the new chapter of life you are beginning soon. My prayers are with your family. Even though we've never met, we are connected by our common father. HE told us to bear one another's burden's. Being a part of the body of Christ means we share the pain when another part of the body is hurt. May God grant you peace and strength during this time.

[Dawn J., Houston, TX]

Cngratulations Emily on your engagement! I love your dad's music and this is my first time posting on your blog.

My prayers are with your family right now, especially your brother.

[brittany george]

hi iam sorryto hear about your sister you will be in my prayers tell your dad i love his songs maygod bless you and your famnily congrats on your wedding brittany

[christa]

Emily:

You are such a reflection of the Lord's love as you minister to others. Thank you for being an encouragement to other young girls as you seek the Lord as a daughter, young woman, sister and soon to be, wife. The Lord will strengthen you through His provision of Peace, that truly passes all understanding, during this loss of your little sister. We may not know what the future holds, BUT we have the Blessed Assurance of WHO holds our future!!! Your family is embraced in the love of your extended family of Christ!
Christa

[Sarah]

Emily,
I am engaged also and will be getting married in June of this year...next month!! I pray that the Lord turns your mourning into dancing as you say goodbye to Maria and enter into this new season of life with Tanner. That refrigerator picture will forever be in my mind...what a sweet sweet image of sisters. My fiance and I desire to adopt and what an inspiration you are at such a young age. Press on my sister!
In Him, Sarah

[Gina]

Thoughts and prayers are with your family

[Jenny Williams]

Praying for you and all of your family. We are so sorry.

[Jenny Williams]

Praying for you and all of your family. We are so sorry.

[Jenny Williams]

Praying for you and all of your family. We are so sorry.

[Danielle]

Two months is too little.
They let him go.
They had no sudden healing.
To think that providence would
Take a child from his mother while she prays
Is appalling.

Who told us we’d be rescued?
What has changed and why should we be saved from nightmares?
We’re asking why this happens
To us who have died to live?
It’s unfair.

Chorus:
This is what it means to be held.
How it feels when the sacred is torn from your life
And you survive.
This is what it is to be loved.
And to know that the promise was
When everything fell we’d be held.

This hand is bitterness.
We want to taste it, let the hatred numb our sorrow.
The wise hands opens slowly to lillys of the valley and tomorrow.

(Chorus)
This is what it means to be held.
How it feels when the sacred is torn from your life
And you survive.
This is what it is to be loved.
And to know that the promise was
When everything fell we’d be held.

Bridge:
If hope is born of suffering.
If this is only the beginning.
Can we not wait for one hour watching for our Savior?

(Chorus)
This is what it means to be held.
How it feels when the sacred is torn from your life
And you survive.
This is what it is to be loved.
And to know that the promise was
When everything fell we’d be held.

[tiffany Mingo]

I know that no words will take away the pain. But know that your sister is with God and also do take some time to enjoy your engagement. Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

[Jenna]

Emily, I am praying for you and your family! I am so deeply sorry for your loss.

[Klaye]

God hears every prayer and catches each tear. Praying.

[Andy Anderson]

Emily, Many prayer all over the world are going out for you and your family.

I have been praying for your family all night. I woke up this morning and found this page.

May God Bless and comfort you and your family.

Jesus will help you and guide you.

[Jill Lancieri]

My prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. May Jesus carry you and continue to bless you.

[Michelle from Greentown, IN]

Recently my family lost someone very quickly and it rocked our world. Just remember what you feel is very real and very normal. Let God be your strength. Isaiah 26:3, Isaiah 41:10

God be with you and your family.

I am praying for you all.

[solomeeeo]

To all of you our heartfelt prayers are going out and up for you at this time of grief and sorrow. God Bless you all and hold your son close, he needs your love more than ever. I am sure it won't be long till Jesus comes back and you will be with your angel again very soon

[Shannon]

Hi Emily,
This note is for your whole family, but I am putting it on your blog(grammar is not one of my strong suits so please bear with me). My family heard about Maria yesterday and know your pain. Last October my little brother was born with a fatal genetic disorder called trisomy 18. Even though the doctors told my parents that Matthew would not live long they still wanted to bring him home so he could be loved here instead of at a cold and clammy hospital. So after about 10 days he was released. Matthew was on oxygen and had to be fed through a tube because he was breathing to fast to eat on his own.

While he was alive at home he was on hospice care, we had nurses coming almost everyday to check on him. Then in November he died quietly. He was buried the next day.

Even though Matthew was a blessing and not a tragedy I know what you are going through, but it's in the tough times that God is closest. So hang on to Him He is near to the brokenhearted. God promises eternal life to those who believe in Him not once we die but now!, so Maria and Matthew didn't die actually as my dad put it they moved. And we'll see them soon, sooner than we think. This life IS death, Maria and Matthew were swallowed up into eternal life! And that is AMAZING! They are both happier than they have ever been. You will always miss her and I will always miss my brother, but God is enough and he will fill that whole in your hearts.

This part of my note is especially for whoever was driving the car. I can relate to you, and what you are feeling. The night before Matthew died he skin looked a little gray so my parents turned up his oxygen. The next morning I turned it back down even though I know now he still needed it up. He died a few hours later. I have blamed myself ever since, but then I realized that God had used me for something beautiful, He used me and you to bring Maria and Matthew into the fullness of God's presence and eternal life. Yes it is hard and it hurts, but God chose US! and He MUST of had a good reason. We were God's instruments and did His will. When God wrote out our life stories and Matthew and Maria's life stories this was a huge part He added in, He knew we would be able to handle it, and he knew we would be able to handle it because of Him! He gave us this trial point in our lives to draw us nearer to him. And because of this difficult time we will be able to help others later on in life who are in the same situation. Think of all of those people who have no hope. Be thankful, don't get caught up in the "If Only" mind frame, "If Only" was not what God wanted. What He wanted was for Maria and Matthew to join Him in heaven at the time that they did, It wasn't our time for them to leave but it was His. And since we are His workmanship created to do his goodwill I guess we both did the right thing. What God wanted us to do and that's what matters in the end.

I am looking forward to seeing you, whether it is on this earth or with Maria and Matthew.

You are in my family's prayers.
Shannon

[Stacy from Baltimore, MD]

Hi Emily,
Congratulations to you and Tanner on your engagement. It's truly and encouragement to see a young christian couple happy and in love. I absolutely love your blog.

My heart goes out to your and your family on the loss of your beloved baby sister. I can't stop thinking about the entire family. Please know that everyone one in Maryland is praying for you and your family. Without a doubt I know the Lord will give you guys the grace and strength to endure this pain.

Love always
Stacy

[Beka]

Emily,

Even as my heart is broken for the horrific pain and loss you and your family are experiencing, I still want to congratulate you on your engagement. I pray that God will bless and keep the two of you through this most difficult time and into your life together. You are loved.

[Amber Collins]

You don't know me nor do I know you but your entire family is heavily upon my heart. I grew up listening to your dad. I can't imagine the grief you're experiencing at this time. I just wanted you to know that even in Pensacola FL (where I live) and I'm sure all around the world people are lifitng your family in prayer. I pray that God will encompass you in His love and that you can find peace in the midst of severe heartache. Praying for you all.

[Christy]

"The Lord is near to the brokenhearted, and saves those who are crushed in spirit." Psalms 34:18

Your family has been in my prayers and thoughts (and many tears have flown!) since I heard the news. Today God has specifically been burdening me to pray for you and Caleb. Continue to hold fast to what you do know and have seen our God do over time. He is using you in amazing ways now to be a shining light, and is going to do things in the future through your personal story that pass all of our understanding. Keep holding on to Jesus. Congrats on your engagement - praise God you have a godly man who loves you dearly to go through this tough time with. I will be praying diligently.

[David Tonner]

It is hard to believe that just 3 1/2 hours after you shared this wonderful news that the unthinkable could happen. How could so much joy and pain happen on the same afternoon?
You don't know me Emily, but I, along with millions of fans around the world, treasure your family's devotion and pray for all of you at this time of sorrow.
-David Tonner (London, Canada)

[Emily Smith]

Hi Emily,
I'm Austin Mann's older sister - I very briefly met you a few years ago at Baylor - I just wanted you to know how heavy you and your family have been on my heart these past 48 hours - I have been crying here in Kansas City for you all and praying constantly that the Lord gives all of you His peace that passes understanding. Know how much the body of Christ is lifting you up to the Father during this time. And a huge congratulations on your engagement!

[K]

Emily,
Congratulations on the engagement!I don't know you at all, but I feel like I do. :)
We have a lot in common. I am 22 and engaged. I have an 18 year old bio brother and a 3 year old sister adopted from China. I am praying for you and Tanner as you grieve the loss of Maria. She was a beautiful, bubbly girl.
Months from now, when you feel ready to do wedding planning, I am praying for you to not feel guilty for being happy. I don't want to preach, but I just wanted you to know that you especially have been on my mind.
Praying for you,
Kalee in Idaho

[Beverly]

I wish you many blessings and happiness in your new life with Tanner. Please take care of yourself during the wedding planning.....it can be stressful, but wonderful. :)

It is so sad that you have to mourn at the same time you want to be rejoicing. God has a plan for everything, so don't lose heart! You will get through this with your wonderful family and hubby-to-be. ***Hugs***

[Kassie]

Congratulations on your engagement, hon. And my prayers for your family. As a big sister to six, four from China, my heart is breaking for you and the loss of your zhou mei mei. But I'm rejoicing at the news of your engagement!

The Lord bless you and keep you. . .and bring you peace in the time of sorrow, and joy knowing Maria's with her true heavenly Forever Family - and that you'll soon be starting your own here on earth!
Hugs and prayers in Texas from one big sister to another.

[Emily]

Emily,

I grew up listening to your Dad's music, and always thought that the fact he had a daughter about my age with the same name was so cool. I remember right after Speechless came out my Dad and I took a road trip together, and he had bought the tape for me to listen to on the trip. He played the track "Fingerprints of God" for me and said it had been written "for Emily.":o) All of that to say, your entire family has been an encouragement to me for so many years, and I am so thankful for the ministry that all of you have. I am constantly challenged by your blog to reject the lie that I am too young to boldly proclaim the Gospel to those around me as I seek to do God's work. I am praying for you and your family.

In Him,
Emily

Jeremiah 29:11

[hopeketcham]

Praying for your family

[Shannon M]

Emily,

I want to thank you and your family for all you do to bring children to their forever families. My daughter, Emeline, just came home to us. She is my little sunshine. A grant from Shaohannah's Hope helped make her homecoming possible.

I want to congratulate you on your engagement. I pray God will use you and Tanner as a couple in mighty ways. I also pray that this special time and looking forward to your wedding will be a light during this difficult time. I am praying for your whole family. It is hard to even know what to pray, but I know God knows when I don't. I pray you will be able to be sad but at the same time be joyful as you look forward to being married to the man you love. Again, I will pray that our God who makes the impossible possible will help you to have joy in Him in this time. Every time I look at my daughter, I see the pictures of Maria. May there be many little ones who are brought into Christian forever families as a result of hearing Maria Sue's story. May God's unexplainable peace surround you and your famiy at this time.

Blessings,
Shannon M.

[Christy]

Hi again, Emily, I posted yesterday but know today is the memorial service, and I am praying for you, Caleb, Will Franklin, Shaoey, and Stevey Joy, as well as your mom and dad, and Tanner. I just started reading "When God Doesn't Make Sense" by James Dobson, and it is sooooo good. It's really helping me have a little peace after hearing about yours and so many similar situations in the last month. I would encourage you to read it when you can and pray that God will help you continue to trust His faithful hand even when it doesnt make sense to us. Lots of hugs and prayers...

[Alex and Alicia Berwick]

Precious Emily,
Who would have thought that your heart many years ago could have touched so many people, like our family who has 3 bio sons and now our Anna Bei. The ripple effect of one heart's fervant prayers has now blessed our family. Thank you, and know that the brothers and sisters of our Lord Jesus are carrying you each to Jesus all day long!
I praise God for your engagement to your beloved, and I will be praying for you and all those you hold so dear.
Because of Jesus we have hope, Alicia Berwick Conroe, Texas

[Kara]

Emily,
I know that you are overwhelmed and restless and I pray whole heartedly for you every day. As I heard the news I sat crying at my computer desk. I am so happy for you and Tanner though. The Lord gives and takes away. I have a picture of you and your family on my mirror as a constant reminder to pray for you and to remind me that though God doesn't promise to keep us safe and happy He does promise to lead us through our horrible days and our good days. Depend on Him. He is the only One who can make you whole again.

~kara

[Sarah]

Emily~

Congrats on your engagement! My (now) husband and I got engaged almost 2 years ago now. Not even a week after we were engaged, we had a major family tragedy. Our happiness was stifled and we were mourning over a sad situation. I found myself often feeling guilty whenever I showed happiness about our upcoming wedding.

I expressed this to a close friend, and she assured me that while things were bad and everyone around us was mourning, it was ok to be happy about being engaged and it was ok to smile and ok to cry.

I was afraid that every time I looked back on that time in my life, I would be overwhelmed with sadness. I prayed that God would change my heart about it and He did. I prayed that whenever I looked back, I would think of that person and would thank God that I was able to know them, that in my mind, I would constantly remember that as Christians, death is a victory and that we are the ones left mourning! That when I smiled, I smiled with them. That being happy about something in my life that was good is what that person would have wanted.

I don't know if you're going through the same thing that I did. But I wanted to let you know that it's ok to be happy, even if it's hard to be.

So I'm sorry for your loss, but I'm excited for your future. Marriage is an amazing thing. I hope that your wedding is as beautiful as you've always dreamt it would be. You're guaranteed to have a beautiful angel there for sure!!

[Jen]

just praying...

[Amanda]

Hey there,

I was gonna post on the condolence page, but there are sooo many posts there that I cannot get to the comment link. Know that you and your family (especially your brother) are in our prayers. There is nothing I can say to make you or your family feel any better, but know that the Lord can comfort like no other:)

I am really happy for your on your engagement... Keep the post coming on your upcoming wedding.

Luvs...
Amanda McComas

[Doreen]

Emily, please accept my heartfelt congratulations on your engagement. I have been happily married for 21 years, so I wish nothing but love and understanding for you and Tanner as you plan your future together.

I have been an SCC fan for too many years to count. I’m the same age as your Dad and it has been fun watching you grow and mature into a lovely young woman. I currently live in metro St. Louis metro and enjoyed listening to you on the 02/27/08 JOYFM fundraiser for Shaohannah’s Hope. I hope we made you proud!

I was blessed to attend your Dad’s concert in St. Peters the next night and had the pleasure to meet him after the show. This was my fourth or fifth time and he was gracious as always.

To you and your family, I extend my sincere condolences on the loss of your beautiful Maria Sue. I’ve been following the news since I read about the tragedy late last Wednesday evening. I’ve shed many tears for your family, especially as I stood in my kitchen this morning as you laid that little angel to rest.

God is good…all of the time. I will continue to keep you and the entire Chapman clan in my thoughts and prayers. May you be blessed as you continue life’s journey down a new and exciting path.

[Jessica]

*hug*

[Jennifer Springer]

Dear Emily,
Congratulations on your engagement that was known in the heavens forever. Take time to enjoy planning, scheming, and the joy that this marriage will bring to all who know you and Tanner.
On another note, please know that your family is being lifted up in prayer at this time in your journey through life. I lost my younger brother way before I was ever ready to let him go. Our position is a difficult one....we grieve ourselves and we watch our parents grieve. If you ever want to talk, email me. I am so sorry, so very sorry.
Jen

[Linda Siegelin]

I live in ocala florida and attended your Dads concert at the first baptist church of ocala. I have a son who is terminally ill and has (so the drs say,)about two years to live. I have a saying that i want to share with you, "Dont cry because its over", "smile because it happened"May all your wonderful memories somehow comfort you and your family.
Linda Siegelin

[Rachael]

Sweet Emily, Congratulations on your engagement and the blessed life ahead of you. May you both bear much fruit for the Lord.
I am so, so sorry for the pain you and your family have endured these past days, right on the heels of such joy. Thankful to the Lord for His mercies, which are new every morning, and His compassions, which fail not. That includes the merciful gift He gave you of a Godly man to lean on and take comfort in during this time.
Many prayers continuing for you & your family, especially your brother. My mama's heart aches for your dear mom also, and so I will continue to pray for His presence and His great love to wrap you all up in the days ahead.

[Chandra]

Congratulations on your recent engagement. I know this is a bittersweet moment for you and your family. My prayers are with you as you begin this new journey in life. My prayers also for you and your family in this time. I am so sorry for your loss. Your family has blessed me as well as so many others. Know that there are many out there who are praying for all of you.

[Shannon]

Emily,
My heart is absolutely broken for your family for the loss of Maria. I enjoyed looking at all the precious photos you have on your blog. I admire your family so much and the strong faith that you all have and share with the world. I am deeply saddened by your loss and praying for each of you. Congratulation on your engagement.

[kelly mccashen]

Emily,

Well, I don't think any of your "fans" were surprised by your announcement. :) Congratulations to you and Tanner on your engagement. I look forward to seeing how God uses you to glorify Him in this new phase of your life.

I also want you to know that I have been praying for you as you grieve the temporary separation from your precious little sister. Your family is continually in my prayers.

In Christ,

Kelly McCashen Bryan, Ohio

[Maze Family]

We are carrying your broken hearts and ours to the Father. We are so sorry about your loss and yet so grateful that the Lord has blessed you with Tanner. Lean on him in this time~ God is with you all. Love and prayers~

[Jennifer]

Congratts! to you and Tanner... and God's blessings as you start this new phase of your lives :)

Condelences and heartfelt prayers to you and your family as this precious moments.

"Fingerprints of God" changed my life and your dad is the best...

Love you all...

[Melanie]

I pray for grace, peace, and blessings for your family as you celebrate the life of Maria Sue and the excitement of your upcoming marriage to Tanner.

Just want to share a fun memory I have of you. I met you at Louisiana College in October of 1991 (I think). I was 16, you were 5, Caleb was 2. Your mom had her hands full w/ baby Will Franklin, so I was there to help entertain you and Caleb 'til intermission. We ate dinner together (I remember encouraging you and Caleb to eat some very rubbery green beans) and then you and Caleb and I played telephone with styrofoam cups and string and "school" with a piece of chalk --the only things resembling toys in the basement of the concert hall--while your dad was upstairs singing. Caleb got absolutely covered in chalk dust and you helped me dust him off before we went upstairs for the family introduction. You and Caleb both "autographed" my copy of More To This Life :). What a brilliant, beautiful little girl you were--so proud to be able to write your name!! After the concert I drove your dad and uncle back to the hotel in my parents' minivan since you and your mom and brothers had taken the bus back to the hotel already. I remember I was so goofy I didn't even know how to turn the heater on so your dad had to figure it out for me. Anyway, I stayed w/ you and your bros in the hotel room (you were fast asleep) while your folks ate pizza w/ the band and crew (it was the last show of the tour). I also remember talking to your dad about wanting to go to Baylor (which I did) while he was inscribing Bibles to give as end-of-tour gifts. So cool that you ended up going to Baylor too. Anyway, just wanted to let you know I'm praying for you and your family (along w/ so many others).
In Him,
Melanie (mjstivers"at"gmail.com)

[Rachel]

congradulations!!!! i wish the both of you the greatest joy and i pray that you both go through life with God leading both of you together...God Bless!!

~Rachel

[Dwayne]

Congradulations Emily!!! I got engaged this past august! I pray nothing but the best. You are a very beautiful girl and God has blessed that dude with a wonderful young lady! God bless you!

[the moore family]

We are praying for you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family!

[finlou]

God's blessings on your upcoming marriage! It's a great thing that God has done for us!

I'll be praying for you and your siblings as you adjust to the loss of Maria. Of course, we pray for your parents too, but from my experience, the children seem to keep their feelings inside so as not to add more pain to their parents' grief. We will continue to pray as you all live out before the world a most difficult time. I believe God is well pleased in your faithful, trusting walk. What a testimony! Always remember, His grace is sufficient!

[cindy wheatley]

Keeping your family often in my prayers during this very difficult time. Y'all are such a wonderful example of what a Christian family SHOULD be. Congratulations on your engagement! Dance, Cinderella, Dance!

[Rebekah]

Emily, I am so sorry for the loss of your sweet Maria. I am heartbroken for your family, truly. Only a few weeks ago I asked Jesus to allow me to feel what His heart feels for his children, whether joy or sadness, and I know He is grieving with you and your family. My prayers are with you, but especially your brother. All I know is that if He saw fit to take Maria, He must have an amazing plan of redemption and grace to bring forth. He knows your pain. Congratulations on your engagement; Jesus has your heart and loves you so much. You and your family have been such a blessing to me, to my family. Blessings and comfort to you.

Rebekah

[Stephanie Ramirez]

Congrats girl!! It's so much fun planning a wedding with the Lord in the center! I enjoyed every minute of planning and putting God in His rightful place in every detail in the service and reception! It is an inlightenment to understand the scripture about Christ and the church! Your fiance will have the best understanding of it when he sees you coming down the isle to meet him!! HAVE FUN!! It's a blast!

[The Vander-Plas Family - Lubbock, Texas]

Congratulations Emily! I know that the timing makes this seem less exciting--but this is still a very special time, and our prayers go out for you and Tanner and yuor continued happines.

Kristen Vander-Plas
for the family

[The Vander-Plas Family - Lubbock, Texas]

Congratulations Emily! I know that the timing makes this seem less exciting--but this is still a very special time, and our prayers go out for you and Tanner and yuor continued happines.

Kristen Vander-Plas
for the family

[Janet Clancy]

CONGRATULATIONS! The Lord is so beautifully glorified in the ministries your family is involved in, I have no doubt He will be as beautifully glorified in your own marriage.
You are in my prayers.

[Stephanie]

Emily,
I just wanted to tell you and Tanner congratulations on your engagement!
Please also know that you and your family are in my prayers for little maria and your brother. God Bless you all!

[nancy]

God is sovereign.

He sits on His throne in heaven and rules all.

Give thanks in all circumstances. This is God's will for you in Christ. A thankful heart will help you rise above this time of pain.

my prayers for you,
sisters, Nancy

[Jessica Vaughn]

Emily,
I don't think I've ever heard of anyone having such mixed emotions as you are probably experiencing right now. It's difficult to be excited and sorrowful at the same time. I'm so thankful that God gave you and Tanner each other.
I believe that your wedding will be such a joyous occasion! I know with such a tragedy happening at the same time that it would be easy to let the sorrow overshadow the happiness, but you could honor Maria within the ceremony, and I think that planning something like that would help. Bringing some of the happiness of her life together with the probably the happiest occasion of your life might not only help you, but your family as well.
I hope I'm not overstepping any boundaries with the suggestion. I am continually praying for you and your family. God bless you!

Love in Christ,

Jessica Vaughn

[pt]

Emily,
May the Lord bless you and keep you.
May the Lord make his face shine upon you.
And give you peace and rest.
In His Holy Name, Amen.

[Brad and Amanda Kolar]

Emily,
My husband and I were at your dad's concert the Friday that you got engaged. He told us about it even before it happened. He was so proud. I don't pretend to understand the pain that you are going through right now, but I am familiar with grief in the middle of what is supposed to be the most joyful time of your life. I got married this past Christmas, and six days before my grandma suddenly passed away. The only thing that I know to do at a time like this is to pray and lean on those closest to you for support. Our family is praying for you and carrying you to Jesus.

[Hm]

Congratulations on the engagment, and know that our family is lifting you up in our prayers.

[Ella Sinise]

Emily,
My name is Ella, I am the daughter of Gary and Moira Sinise. There are many in the Christian Hollywood circle who are so devastated for you. We are praying for you even now.
EMail: Steppenwolfstage@lycos.com
I hope your brother feels a hedge of protection and peace around him.
Thinking of you,
Ella Sinise

[katherine]

Emily, Congratulations on your engagement! I was remembering back some 27 years ago when my husband and I were first engaged. I am happy the Lord has given you this blessing.
My heart has been so heavy with thinking of the grief you are facing. We lost a baby girl to SIDS twenty years ago and the grief was incredible. I do know the Lord heals the broken-hearted, and He will heal your heart and the hearts of all who loved Maria. I hope you will remind your brother often that God takes ugly and tragic situations and redeems them. He can make something beautiful from this great loss. I believe your brother will be a great testimony of God's great redemptive power, and that God will use him mightly. I know no words really help, and some can even hurt. I am praying for you and your family. On a lighter note, you could tell your dad that when my girls were little they would rake leaves and make rooms for their imaginary houses out in the yard. They would pretend that your dad, Michael W. Smith, and, I think, Michael Card were their husbands. Now that they are 19, 22, and 25--they think of this and laugh. May God bless you with a deep, rich and beautiful engagement, wedding, and marriage.

[Kelly]

Emily,

Congratulations on your engagement.:)!

You do not know me but you and your family have been on my heart and in my prayers. I have followed your father's music for 20 years and feel as if I do know you all. I was so shocked to hear about Maria. Just the same day that the LORD took Maria home to be with HIM I learned that there were 4000 newly orphaned children in China following the earthquake. The numbers have surely increased. God has a bigger plan for Maria and your family's ministry than we could ever imagine. I have spoken to several people who have a new desire to consider adoption since Maria's homegoing. It gives me chills and tears at the same time. Stay strong. You are a beautiful young women with a special calling on your life. Please give Will Franklin a hug and remind him of our Sovereign God. Love and prayers!

Kelly

[Wanda]

Emily, Congrats! I am happy for you and Tanner. May God bless your marriage with much laughter and love. How exciting to plan a wedding. Enjoy the time of preparation. I will continue to pray for you all.

[Marsha Murphy]

Emily Congratulations on your engagement - You have such a wonderful and inspirational family. You are blessed and I know that God will truly bless this special time of your life.

Blessing to you both,
Marsha M

[Stephanie Jones]

Emily,

Congrats! May your life be filled with many blessings. I love the heart you have for those in need and now is your time to rest on the prayers of others. I would love to learn more about how my husband and I could help with anything that you would need help with as far a adoption goes. Your family helped us bring our little Raymie home in 2006. God bless.

[Jami Holland]

Precious Emily,

I just stumbled upon your dad's blog today, and thats how I got here. From one young woman to another :) congrats on the engagement! How exciting! I cannot imagine what your family is going thru, trying to celebrate all these joyful things but at the same time grieving and adjusting and helping one another thru this tough time. I am the oldest of 4...I know its a tough job being the oldest child. But oh how I pray that God will give you healing, peace and joy...its tough to be the oldest and help with the younger ones and with parents who are also hurting...and deal with it all yourself. But trust in the Lord and lean on Him, especially in times of not understanding. I know I am a random gal HA from North Carolina...but if you ever need anything please let me know. I dont know why I feel the need to offer that. :) But know that you have a new blog friend here praying for you every single day.

[Angela Slaughter]

Emily, We are praying for you. No doubt you've heard those words hundreds of times over the past week or so. But we are. And I know you know the power in prayer. How amazing that so many are lifting you and your family to the God that heals. I have a precious family of my own thanks in great part to your dad's ministry. His influence (through his incredible music) was one of my greatest supports in life. I don't get the 'why' in all this, but God does. He does. And He's holding you and your sweet family. And we'll keep praying. It's the least I can do.

Angela Slaughter
Siloam Springs, AR

[Sharon Barnick]

Emily and family- We are praying for your whole family- and as you go through this grieving process for your little sister, I know that God is going to use Tanner to comfort your hurting heart in ways that might just give you a glimpse of how the Lord designed marriage to be- through the times that are joyous, and those that are the toughest. And our family is so sorry that you are going through the latter. My words cannot comfort you as I would want them to but God is going to continue to bless your family as well as your relationship with Tanner. We ache for you, but are glad you have a young man who loves God so much joining your family- which ministers to so many. So many prayers are going up for you all! Job said it this way "The Lord giveth and the Lord taketh away. Blessed be the name of the Lord. Prayers going up, Sharon Barnick and family, NJ

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Congrats, Emily! My prayers are with you!

[Jenny Burkett]

Emily,

First I want to say Congratulations. Marriage is such a blessing and I pray that God will bless you and Tanner during the planning and throughout your marriage.

I also want you to know that I'm on my hands & knees for you and your sweet family right now. I won't even begin to imagine your heartache, but my heart is heavy for you and I pray that God will wrap you all in His loving arms and provide you with peace that passes all understanding. I pray that He will allow me to be a carrier for some of your grief, and somehow help that to lighten your hearts.

With lots of love..
Your sister in Christ,
Jenny
Arlington,TX

Congratulations! I've been married for 8 years and I waited for God to answer my prayers for a godly man, who serves God and loves God with all his heart!